Finding Your Authentic Voice and Building Confidence

The video discusses the impact of external motivation on social anxiety and the importance of finding one's authentic voice. It emphasizes asking courageous questions to understand oneself better and introduces the concept of a 'curiosity compass' to enhance social interactions. The 'golden rule of questions' is highlighted as a method to improve interpersonal skills by asking questions you would like to be asked.

What is a common result of relying on external motivation in social settings?

• Increased creativity

• Improved self-esteem

• Social anxiety

• Better communication

How can one reduce social anxiety according to the video?

• By seeking more external validation

• By focusing on personal interests and desires

• By avoiding social situations

• By mimicking others' behaviors

What is essential to develop confidence in social situations according to the video?

• External validation

• Understanding of personal interests

• Following social trends

• Avoiding social interactions

What should you ask yourself to find your authentic voice?

• What are the latest trends?

• What do others expect from me?

• What is most challenging for me right now?

• How can I impress others?

What is the 'curiosity compass' designed to do?

• Teach you to avoid difficult questions

• Make you more interesting

• Help you focus on being interested in others

• Improve your public speaking skills

What is a benefit of having a 'curiosity compass'?

• It allows you to avoid difficult topics

• It helps you feel more comfortable in social settings

• It makes you the center of attention

• It ensures you always have the last word

What are 'go-to questions' meant to achieve in conversations?

• Make conversations shorter

• Facilitate engaging and meaningful interactions

• Ensure you dominate the conversation

• Avoid any personal topics

What is a characteristic of effective 'go-to questions'?

• They are focused on trivial matters

• They are vague and open-ended

• They are personal and engaging

• They are complex and hard to answer

What is the 'golden rule of questions' about?

• Focusing on yes or no questions

• Asking only factual questions

• Avoiding questions altogether

• Asking questions you would like to be asked

How can the 'golden rule of questions' enhance conversations?

• By ensuring they are one-sided

• By deepening interpersonal connections

• By focusing on controversial topics

• By making them more superficial