Unit 4: Building up Relationships in the Family

A family is facing repeated arguments between parents and their teenage son over his choice of friends. Based on what you have learned, what would be the most effective first step to resolving this conflict?

• The parents should strictly enforce their rules and punish their son.
• The parents should have an open discussion to understand their son's perspective.
• The son should ignore his parents' concerns and continue seeing his friends.
• The parents should cut off financial support to their son.

Answer explanation

Open discussion allows both parties to understand each other's perspectives and work toward a compromise, which is essential in resolving family conflicts.

A husband often comes home late due to work, which causes his wife to feel neglected and upset. What underlying cause of conflict does this situation illustrate?

• Differences in personality and nature
• Lack of awareness of one’s responsibility
• Lack of time for each other
• Unfaithfulness to one’s partner

Answer explanation

The conflict arises due to the lack of time spent together, leading to feelings of neglect.

Which of the following behaviors is most likely to help prevent conflicts between husband and wife according to the principles discussed in the unit?

• Always winning arguments
• Compromising and adapting to each other's differences
• Keeping personal issues to oneself
• Relying on relatives to mediate disputes

Answer explanation

Compromising and adapting to each other's differences is essential in maintaining a harmonious relationship and preventing conflicts.

A parent comes home from work feeling stressed due to a highly competitive work environment. This stress is then transferred to family members, leading to conflicts. Which concept from the lesson does this situation best illustrate?

• Unfaithfulness to one’s partner
• Differences in personality and nature
• The impact of external stress on family life
• Lack of time for each other

Answer explanation

Stress from external factors like work can significantly impact family dynamics, leading to conflicts.

A parent insists that their teenage child follow the same strict rules that were enforced during their own childhood, leading to tension and rebellion. What is the best explanation for this conflict?

• The child is simply disobedient.
• The parent is unaware of the child’s need for independence.
• The parent’s strictness is necessary to maintain order.
• The child’s friends are a bad influence.

Answer explanation

The conflict arises due to the generation gap, where the parent fails to adapt to the changing needs and independence of the adolescent child.

A wife feels unappreciated because her husband rarely thanks her for her efforts. According to the lesson, which approach could improve their communication and strengthen their relationship?

• The wife should stop doing tasks that are unappreciated.
• The husband should use polite language like “thank you” and “sorry.”
• The wife should demand appreciation from her husband.
• The husband should ignore the issue to avoid conflict.

Answer explanation

Using polite language and expressing gratitude can significantly improve communication and strengthen relationships.

A parent is very strict with their child and often compares them with other children, leading to the child feeling stressed and anxious. What is the most likely outcome if this behavior continues?

• The child will eventually improve to meet the parent’s expectations.
• The child may develop aggressive behaviors and have conflicts with the parent.
• The child will become more independent and confident.
• The child will stop caring about their parent’s expectations.

Answer explanation

Constant comparison and strictness can lead to stress and aggressive behaviors, causing conflicts between the child and parent.

In a scenario where a wife humorously points out her husband’s habit of leaving shoes outside, what role does humor play in this situation according to the principles discussed?

• It diminishes the importance of the issue.
• It helps to avoid a serious conflict by addressing the issue lightly.
• It can escalate the conflict if not understood.
• It avoids addressing the real problem.

Answer explanation

Humor can be an effective way to address issues without causing tension, helping to avoid serious conflict.

A partner discovers that their spouse has been unfaithful. According to the text, what is a common reaction that might occur in such a situation?

• The partner immediately forgives and forgets.
• The partner feels dishonored and may decide to end the relationship.
• The partner ignores the situation to maintain family peace.
• The partner becomes unfaithful as well.

Answer explanation

Unfaithfulness can lead to feelings of dishonor and can be a serious cause for the dissolution of the relationship.

In a marriage where both partners work, the wife feels overwhelmed with household responsibilities, leading to conflicts. What underlying issue is this scenario highlighting?

• Lack of time for each other
• Unfaithfulness to one’s partner
• Lack of awareness of shared responsibilities
• Differences in personality and nature

Answer explanation

The conflict arises due to an imbalance in shared responsibilities, with one partner feeling overburdened.