TED-Ed: Would you stop dating someone your parents didn't like? | TED-Ed

The video explores reactance theory, which describes how people react when their freedom is threatened. It discusses the Romeo and Juliet effect, where forbidden relationships may intensify, but highlights that social network approval is crucial for long-term relationship success. The video differentiates between defiant and independent reactance and emphasizes the importance of balancing independence with social inclusion for well-being.

What is the primary motivation behind reactance theory?

• To comply with authority

• To restore perceived freedom

• To avoid conflict

• To seek approval from peers

What did the 1972 study by psychologists at the University of Colorado aim to investigate?

• The impact of parental approval on career choices

• The effect of peer pressure on academic performance

• The role of social media in relationship dynamics

• The influence of parental disapproval on romantic relationships

What is the social network effect in the context of romantic relationships?

• The tendency to date within one's social circle

• The influence of friends and family approval on relationship success

• The impact of social media on relationship dynamics

• The effect of long-distance relationships on social networks

Why might people with good relationships with their parents ignore their advice?

• They seek approval from peers instead

• They want to rebel against authority

• They believe there are no serious consequences

• They fear losing their independence

What distinguishes defiant reactance from independent reactance?

• Defiant reactance involves ignoring advice, while independent reactance involves following it

• Defiant reactance is impulsive, while independent reactance is about personal choice

• Defiant reactance is about seeking approval, while independent reactance is about avoiding conflict

• Defiant reactance is about compliance, while independent reactance is about rebellion

How do supportive social networks impact romantic relationships?

• They provide a buffer against disapproval from others

• They have no significant impact

• They increase the likelihood of relationship failure

• They make relationships more challenging

What lesson can be drawn from the story of Romeo and Juliet regarding social networks?

• Forbidden love always triumphs

• Supportive networks are crucial for relationship endurance

• Social networks have no impact on relationships

• Parental disapproval strengthens relationships