Boyfriend Bootcamp: Building the Foundation

What is the main purpose of a “relationship check-in”?

• To catch your partner doing something wrong

• To compare each other’s weekly schedules

• To genuinely understand each other’s emotional and mental state

• To plan the next date night

Which of these is an example of active listening?

• Nodding while scrolling on your phone

• Giving advice immediately

• Listening fully and repeating back what you heard

• Changing the subject

If your partner’s love language is Acts of Service, what’s the best gesture?

• Writing them a poem

• Surprising them with a thoughtful favor

• Giving a long hug

• Posting about them on social media

What’s a healthy reason to talk about future goals with your partner?

• To pressure them into changing

• To see if your visions align

• To prove you’re better at planning

• To brag about your goals

Respect in a relationship is best shown by:

• Always agreeing

• Supporting their growth and boundaries

• Controlling decisions “for their good”

• Keeping secrets to avoid conflict

Why is it important to reflect on what you admire about your partner?

• It boosts your ego

• It keeps the relationship surface-level

• It builds appreciation and emotional connection

• It helps you “win” arguments later

Which behavior weakens the foundation of a relationship?

• Honest conversations

• Ignoring problems to “keep peace”

• Making time to connect

• Celebrating small wins

What does it mean to “build a foundation” in a relationship?

• Agreeing to avoid tough topics

• Building trust, communication, and mutual respect

• Spending all your time together

• Having the same opinions

If your partner shares a struggle with you, what’s the best first response?

• “You’ll get over it.”

• “Why didn’t you tell me sooner?”

• “Thanks for trusting me. I’m here for you.”

• “That’s nothing compared to what I’m going through.”

What’s a strong sign that your foundation is solid?

• You never argue

• You both feel safe, heard, and respected

• You check each other’s phones

• You spend every moment together