It was an unlikely romance . . . Mary Todd and Abraham Lincoln were married in November of 1842. It was the first time that Mary Todd Lincoln really realized what it was like to have hardship, so she sort of stood by her man, if you will, but in a sense felt a tremendous isolation from her family. This isolation increased for Mary when Abraham Lincoln claimed the White House in 1860. In the case of Mary Lincoln, you had her as a member of the southern aristocracy married to the union president who was leading the nation into civil war. So without even doing or saying anything, the odds were stacked against her. She just felt this constant lack of support by the Washington socialites who were just abhorred that these midwesterners have taken over the white house.
Which word best describes the tone of the author toward Mary Todd Lincoln in this excerpt?