Healthy and unhealthy relationships

Acts controlling or possessive – like you own your partner

• Healthy

• Unhealthy

• Both

• Don't know

Goes back on promises

• Healthy

• Unhealthy

• Both

• Don't know

Makes all the decisions about what the two of you do

• Healthy

• Unhealthy

• Both

• Don't know

Have some privacy – your letters, diary, personal phone calls are respected as your own

• Healthy

• Unhealthy

• Both

• Don't know

Have equal decision-making power about what you do in your relationship

• Healthy

• Unhealthy

• Both

• Don't know

Embarrasses or humiliates the other

• Unhealthy

• Healthy

• Both

• Don't know

Both accept responsibility for your actions

• Both

• Unhealthy

• Healthy

• Don't know

Have close friends and family who like the other person and are happy about your relationship

• Healthy

• Unhealthy

• Both

• Don't know

Solve conflicts without putting each other down, cursing at each other or making threats

• Unhealthy

• Both

• Don't know

• Healthy

Respect each other’s opinions, even when they are different

• Unhealthy

• Healthy

• Both

• Don't know