Conflict Resolution

Positive Relationships are based on...

• Kind words

• Assertiveness

• Strength

• Loyalty

Tags

CCSS.RL.9-10.3

Type of conflict: Two siblings fighting over who gets the remote control

• Fact

• Ego

• Value

• Need

Type of conflict: A disagreement about how to spend a budget surplus

• Fact

• Ego

• Value

• Need

Tags

CCSS.RI.9-10.8

CCSS.W.9-10.1

CCSS.W.9-10.1B

Conflict styles: You know your friend is mad at you, so you stay home from school

• Avoid/turtle

• Accommodate/teddy bear

• Compete/shark

• Compromise/fox

• Collaborate/owl

Conflict styles: You and your friend decide to take turns picking the show on Netflix to watch

• Avoid/turtle

• Accommodate/teddy bear

• Compete/shark

• Compromise/fox

• Collaborate/owl

Tags

CCSS.SL.9-10.1

CCSS.SL.9-10.1C

Conflict styles: attempting to beat your opponent in a disagreement

• Avoid/turtle

• Accommodate/teddy bear

• Compete/shark

• Compromise/fox

• Collaborate/owl

Clear, confident, reasonable

• Assertive

• Aggressive

Tags

CCSS.L.9-10.4

CCSS.L.9-10.5

CCSS.RI.9-10.4

CCSS.RL.9-10.4

Vague, intimidating, demanding

• Assertive

• Aggressive

Tags

CCSS.L.9-10.5

CCSS.L.9-10.5B

CCSS.RI.9-10.4

CCSS.RL.9-10.4

Assertion messages: "It made me feel special when you brought me flowers unexpectedly"

• Behavior description

• Feelings message

• Consequence statement

• Impression check

• Request statement

Tags

CCSS.L.9-10.5

CCSS.RI.9-10.4

CCSS.RL.9-10.4

Assertion messages: I don't understand why you are slamming your bedroom door

• Behavior description

• Feelings message

• Consequence statement

• Impression check

• Request statement

Tags

CCSS.SL.9-10.1

CCSS.SL.9-10.1D